This is my IVF fertility journey. I got married and wasn't thinking about children, they would come at some point but then two years later, thought yes, now it is the time. The irony is that we spend a lot of years trying to prevent pregnancy, then when you try to get pregnant and you can't. There is something more painful than giving birth and that is not being able to. When then decided to try IVF. Fertility and infertility is still a taboo subject and I am very open about it because of that.